How to answer the interview question ‘What are your weaknesses?’
Why would an interviewer ask the question 'What are your weaknesses?'
Who would answer that truthfully? To most it must seem like a silly question. And yet, a lot interviewers ask this question. Why do they ask this question?
There is a growing awareness of something we call 'Blind Spots'. These are essentially gaps in our self-knowledge that affect our work, our relationships etc.
Things we do not know, that we do not know.
Blind spots refer to areas in one's self-awareness where a person may lack insight or awareness.
So lets say someone gets agitated every time you challenge their thought or idea. But if you ask them if they are receptive to feedback, they say they are and very much so. This is a blind spot. Not knowing yourself or not knowing what ails you, affects you, your performance and your team is 'blind spot'.
The interview question 'What are your weaknesses?' is aimed at these blind spots. The premise is that if you know something you may still be able to do something about it, however, if you are in the dark (unaware) of your own shortcomings, it may be very difficult to change that behaviour or attitude.
Hence the question. The question looks to check your awareness of yourself, your candour and your willingness to acknowledge and improve your own weaknesses.
So, how to answer 'What are your weaknesses?'
We suggest:
1. Prepare a list of attributes you think the job you are applying for needs.
2. Check your own preparedness against those attributes
3. The attributes that you think you lack in, become your weakness, for that particular job interview.
For example, lets say you are applying for a job role that requires some public speaking but everything else is technical and you are sure you can do it all. Your answer to the question ‘What are your weaknesses?' should be:
From what I know, this job is essentially a technical one, but does require some degree of public speaking. I have to confess I am not very comfortable with that, but have been taking sessions to improve that part of me.
🔖 Remember, and the end of the day, the interviewer wants someone for the job not for friendship. Personal things like 'I hate hypocrites' or 'I don't think I will ever understand the popularity of Twilight' is of no use to the interviewer.
Weaknesses - Examples - List
Fearful
Obstructive
Pushy
Loose-tongued
Mistrustful
Undisciplined
Sloppy
Rude
Contemptuous
Short-sighted
Passive
Aggressive
Bossy
Chaotic
Cynical
Blunt
Stand-offish
Vague
Inflexible
Moody
Indifferent
Intolerant
Wasteful
Stubborn
Reckless
Inhibited
Naive
Greedy
Fanatical
Dull
Arrogant
Lazy
Selfish
Complaining
Impatient
Hard
Shallow
Strict
Shy
Prejudiced
P.S. Please do not use these to describe yourself in an interview. Use these to test yourself and find your true weaknesses so that you can do something about them.